dua

Only dua can turn your "can't" in to a "can".

Secrets of Happiness

Once a wise man drew a line on a board and told his student to make the line shorter without touching or erasing it. How would you do it? You have to shorten a line without touching it. The intelligent one (referring to the student) then drew a much longer line underneath that line. So, the line automatically became shorter. The lesson here is that if your difficulties appear to be very big, lift your eyes because you are only focused on yourself. If you lift your eyes up and look at those who are in a worse condition than you, you will suddenly feel that your burden is not as bad as you thought it was. If you think you have some big problem, look at people who have a greater problem. Suddenly, you will get a confidence that my problem is much smaller, and I can manage it.
So, the first point on how to be happy is to see the world where there are greater and bigger problems. Then, your problems will appear smaller. The moment your problems appear smaller, you will get the energy and confidence to deal with it or solve it. In simple words, serve those who are in greater need.
Second, look at your own life. In the past, you had many problems. They have all come and gone. Know that even this will go and you do have the energy and power to overcome it. You will get self-confidence by understanding and looking at your own past.
Third, and most important, do some breathing exercise and relaxation.
Fourth, do you know, in anger we say, ‘I give up’. Without frustration or anger say, ‘I give this problem up, I cannot solve it, let the Divine help me.’ And know that you will always be helped. Have the confidence that you will be helped; a power in the universe is going to help you.

The fifth one – what do you think is the fifth one? I leave it to you. You think about the fifth one. I can go on up to twenty-five or thirty (points), but I would like you to come up with it. We are always looking for solutions from someone. We forget that if we turn our mind inward, we can get some idea, some solution. This is the fifth one. Spontaneity! Be spontaneous. Spontaneity will come when you take a few minutes to go deep within yourself. There is nothing great in smiling when everything is normal, and when everything is going the way you want. But if you awaken the valor inside of you, and say, ‘Come what may, I am going to keep smiling’, you will notice tremendous energy, just rise from within you. And the problem is like nothing; it just comes and disappears.

Silent Prayer

You don't need to shout nor to cry out loud because Allah hears even the very silent prayer of a sincere heart.

YOU ARE POWERFUL

You are powerful.

You can do anything you want.

Forget your circumstances and focus on what lies inside. If you want to be a writer, write. If you want to get in shape, exercise. If you want to be an artist, create art. If you want to be a good parent, become more involved. If you want a career, plan how you will achieve that. If you want adventure, go for it.

If you want to do just about anything, you can.

Your life and circumstances, in this current moment, do not define who you are.

You are more than your circumstances and you are more than your past.

You still have many choices. There is a person in there, a person who is powerful and capable of doing just about anything she wants with her life. You have the power to do anything you choose.

You are not broken.

Learn from your past, see it for what it was—but it does not define you either.

You are a fully capable and functioning woman of beauty and power. Think about what you have bravely marched through. Think of all the times you picked yourself up.

You are not broken.

You are capable and a lovely soul. You have much to offer. You may not feel like you are powerful, but feelings are not facts. Recognize everything you have been through exactly for what it was. It’s important. Take time to reflect—find the patterns and believe you can rise above.

You can.

You have the power to break through. You have the power to overcome.

You are worthy.

You are worthy of happiness, greatness, love and respect. Demand it. Do not settle for anything less. No one in this world is above you or below you.

You are a woman of worth—as all women are; as all people are.

Do not let anyone harm you in any way—this includes emotionally. You have the right to separate yourself from things that are not in your best interest.

Do not let others have more influence over your life than you do.

Take care of yourself. Go after happiness and your dreams. You are worthy—believe that and focus on self love.

It will help you in every aspect of your life. You have the power to demand respect.

You are beautiful.

Stop looking around, comparing yourself to everyone else.

Stop looking at the T.V. screen. Stop thinking about how you don’t measure up.

Look in the mirror; look into your own eyes. Focus on you and who you are.

There is no one else like you in the entire world.

You are beautiful and unique and your beauty goes far beyond the way you look.

Focus on what you like about yourself, as a whole person. If there is something you want to change, make sure it is for you and find a loving way to do it. If you have negative thoughts or dialog, change them to positive.

You are beautiful. You have the power to love the skin you are in.

You are powerful.

STAY...............

A man asked a wise if he should stay with his wife or with your lover.

The wise took two flowers in your hands, one with a rose and the other with a cactus and asked the man:- If i give you one of these flowers which one you choose?
The man smiled and said:- The rose is logical! You are reckless-replied the wise.
Sometimes men are moved by external beauty or by the mundane and choose what seems to shine more.

The rose is more beautiful, but dies soon.
Your wife knows your faults, your weaknesses, your mistakes. She cries out your moments with you bad and she is always ready to help you.
Her mistress wants your money, your happiness, your spaces, costumes, and her smile, the first difficulty you will not hesitate to exchange for another young lover, happy and with money Now tell me man, with whom you want to stay?
The value of your woman no matter how she is on the outside, because what it is and what good she is inside...

LOVE YOUR WIFE

"That's The Way It Is"

I can read your mind and I know your story
I see what you're going through
It's an uphill climb, and I'm feeling sorry
But I know it will come to you

Don't surrender 'cause you can win
In this thing called love

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When you question me for a simple answer
I don't know what to say, no
But it's plain to see, if you stick together
You're gonna find a way, yeah

So don't surrender 'cause you can win
In this thing called love

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When life is empty with no tomorrow
And loneliness starts to call
Baby, don't worry, forget your sorrow
'Cause love's gonna conquer it all, all

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt

Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is